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How Your Choice Of Stay Changes Everything About How You Experience a City

It’s really the beginning of your trip that gets shaped by where you decide to stay. Even before you arrive, your decision will determine how tired you’ll feel by lunchtime, whether you’ll have enough energy to go back out and hit another museum, or if you’ll call it quits early; it determines whether the city feels open and welcoming to you or if it somehow feels off or hard to navigate.

A good hotel doesn’t simply provide you with a comfortable bed and a clean bathroom. A good hotel changes your schedule, your mood, your routines, and ultimately how much of the destination you’re able to soak up.

A Long Commute Alters Your Pace

You typically don’t realize this until the second day of your trip, and not on the first. On the first morning, you tend to be very optimistic. You depart with a full battery, wear proper shoes, and you’ve made a list of all the places you’d like to visit. However, by the end of the day, you begin to feel the distance between your room and everywhere else in the city. You begin to think twice about taking off shopping because it takes away an hour of your time. You avoid breaks during the day because you feel silly going back. You delay dinner until the last possible moment because after returning to your room, you intend to remain there.

These small annoyances create a different tone in your daily routine. Rather than moving through the city naturally, you begin to manage it. Transport becomes more important than you want it to be. You group all of your planned events together in order to optimize your travel time. You spend extra hours out in the city because traveling back to your room is such an ordeal.

Therefore, location is generally more important than a greater number of desirable features. If your accommodations are located close to the attractions and/or activities you have planned for your trip, then your daily routine remains more flexible. You can take a break, regroup, change clothes, sit for 20 minutes, and then continue on with your itinerary. The city seems less daunting when you’re not continually thinking about how to get back to your room.

The Mood Of Your Hotel Carries Over Into The City

You can often tell within minutes whether a hotel helps you settle or leaves you slightly tense. It might be a rushed check-in, a dim hallway, or a room that looked lovely online but feels a bit tired in person. Nothing is especially wrong, and yet you leave each morning carrying a low, hard-to-name strain. Even an Opera House hotel can feel this way if the atmosphere does not match the kind of stay you actually need.

That stress carries over more than many assume it would. Travel requires great amounts of attention (navigating unfamiliar streets/roads; deciphering signage; deciding where to eat; adjusting to noise, crowds, weather, etc.), when your hotel adds yet another layer of anxiety; even if subtly; the entire day can seem worn thin.

Conversely, a calm, reasonably placed room provides a quiet refuge. Each time you return home, you wash your face, set your bag down, gaze out the window for a minute or two, and feel as though you’ve shed some weight. That isn’t dramatic. That is merely the difference between restoration and processing.

There are reasons that people remember their hotels from years past with such clarity. It wasn’t necessarily the extravagance of the rooms themselves that created those memories, but the fact that the bases fit perfectly into the atmosphere of their respective trips. Therefore, stepping out into the surrounding environment felt as though it was part of the overall experience instead of having to “commute” to it.

Ordinary Conveniences Allow You To Explore The City

A properly positioned outlet for charging devices near the bed. Adequate shower water pressure. A chair that is not solely the bed upon which you lie your weary body. Options for breakfast that don’t involve searching for hours while still in a state of semi-sleepiness. All of these minor details appear insignificant until one of them is absent.

Travel has a unique ability to expose how reliant we are on everyday conveniences. If there is no convenient place to unpack/repack your bag, you leave in disarray if the light in your room is poor, making preparing dinner more laborious than necessary. If there is no reasonable coffee source nearby and your hotel offers neither acceptable nor palatable options for brewing coffee, the morning begins later than usual and in poorer spirits.

All of this is mundane and lacks glamour, but it has significant implications for what you end up doing. People frequently plan vacations based on notable landmarks/reservations but live them through various systems they hadn’t previously given consideration to. Where do I recharge my phone? Is there somewhere within a short period of time (10 minutes) that I can grab something useful? Will I lose too much time by leaving in the middle of the afternoon in order to return to my room?

A carefully chosen base provides smoothness to these underlying aspects of daily life. This doesn’t mean it has to be flawless; it simply has to make the normal elements of daily life less burdensome, allowing you more opportunity to appreciate the city itself.

Your Base Influences What You Perceive

Once you establish your hotel in a community with good characteristics (local bakers open early, people walk their dogs, office workers buy lunch at a deli counter, small independently owned bookstores with poor displays), you can gain an understanding of how the city works in a manner that goes beyond just seeing the “big” places. 

You don’t simply visit well-known sites; you learn what morning sounds like in this particular location, which streets wake up gradually and which ones do not. On the other hand, if you are located outside of the rhythm of where you are traveling, your experience will probably have similar layers. You go from hotel to taxi to site to taxi and back again. Sure, you’ll see the city, but you’ll view it through artificial windows of time. Therefore, the city will never truly feel near to you.

You do not need a luxury room or an iconic address to enjoy a successful vacation experience. You need a base that allows you to function in harmony with how you prefer to operate (move, rest & observe). Once that base aligns with your preferences, cities tend to open up in softer, more subtle manners. You cease viewing your hotel as merely an accessory background element and begin perceiving it as a legitimate component of your trip experience; and not just a shell for it.

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Karen LeBlanc is an award-winning travel journalist and storyteller, honored with two Telly Awards and four North American Travel Journalists Association (NATJA) awards for The Design Tourist travel show. As the show’s host, producer, and writer, Karen takes viewers beyond the guidebooks to explore the culture, craft, cuisine, and creativity that define the world’s most fascinating destinations.

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